Showing posts with label THANKSGIVING. Show all posts
Showing posts with label THANKSGIVING. Show all posts

Something I Can Do: 2 a Day for 13 Days

Daniel didn't sleep Saturday night. He tossed and turned, thinking about Friday morning's tragedy.

I thought I was "doing okay" until last night. 


We each respond to the unthinkable differently.


In our own way.


In our own timing.

  • I think back to when my own children were little.
  • I think of all my years in the classroom.
  • I think of my own son who turned 20 years old on Thursday.

And, as a Choleric, I wonder what I can possibly do that will make any difference.

This courageous statement by the father of Emilie Parker gives me an idea:


(Can't view video?  Click here to see Robbie Parker, Father of Emily Parker via YouTube.)


If Robbie Parker can say "Thank you" at a time like this, I can honor little Emilie (who sounds so much like my own artistic daughter when she was her age!) and take the time to say "Thank you."

I can write 2 notes today and 2 tomorrow and 2 the next day until I've written 26 notes to people I've been meaning to appreciate and encourage. 

This is something I can do...

  • ...as a tribute to those who no longer can.
  • ...as a refusal to surrender to "nothing I do matters" thinking.
  • ...as a tangible way to connect with those I love.



And let the peace that comes from Christ rule in your hearts. 
For as members of one body you are called to live in peace. 
And always be thankful.
Let the message about Christ, in all its richness, fill your lives. 
Teach and counsel each other with all the wisdom he gives. 
Sing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs to God with thankful hearts. 
And whatever you do or say, do it as a representative of the Lord Jesus, 
giving thanks through him to God the Father.
Colossians 3:15-17



Your Turn

  • How are you doing today?
  • What is something -- however seemingly small -- you've decided to do in response to Friday's tragedy?
  • Anything else on your heart!

Day 28: CONTENT (My Heart's Contents Control My Contentment)


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My language-loving brain has been playing around with today's word.

I realized that "to my heart's content" could have two very different meanings depending on how I pronounce "content."  

So I looked up both pronunciations:

1)  con·tent  [KON-tent]

noun

Usually plural: contents.  Something that is contained: the contents of a box.

Early meaning:  held within


2)  con·tent  [kuhn-TENT]

adjective

satisfied with what one is or has; not wanting more or anything else.

Early meaning:  restrained desires



Then I pondered today's verse:

I know what it is to be in need 
and I know what it is to have plenty. 
I have learned the secret of being content
in any and every situation, 
whether well fed or hungry, 
whether living in plenty or in want.
Philippians 4:12 (NIV)



Clearly, my outer circumstances do not have to dictate my contentment.  

They will when I allow them to! 

But when the correct contents are held within my heart, then I will be content, with all unhealthy desires restrained.

And what are the correct contents?

An old favorite song from when my children were far younger came to mind:

I have the love of Jesus, 
love of Jesus
down in my heart.
(Where?)
Down in my heart!
(Where?)
Down in my heart!

I have the love of Jesus,
love of Jesus, 
down in my heart.
(Where?)
Down in my heart to stay!

And I’m so happy,
so very happy!
I’ve got the love of Jesus 
in my heart!
(Down in my heart)
And I'm so happy,
so very happy!
I’ve got the love of Jesus
in my heart!



Jesus in my Heart

Perhaps this sounds sounds simplistic. 

But I believe it is this simple:

I am content when Jesus is my heart's sole content.

No, it's not easy...at least not for me. 

Not yet.

For decades, I've allowed my external circumstances to dictate my thoughts, my beliefs, my moods, my words, my actions, my reactions.

And the havoc this has wreaked -- in my life and my marriage and my relationship with my children and my friendships -- makes "restrained desires" sound like sweet sweet music to my tired ears.


When Jesus is the Content of Our Hearts

When Jesus is the content of my Sanguine heart, I will be content with the joy He brings in the present moment, with no need to keep seeking or creating more "fun".

When Jesus is the content of my Melancholy heart, I will be content in His perfection, without needing to strive to prove my own.

When Jesus is the content of my Choleric heart, I will be content with His control of my life, with no need to keep trying to get it back.

When Jesus is the content of my Phlegmatic heart, I will be content with His peace that passes all understanding, without needing to play relational peace-faker.

When Jesus is my heart's content, I can say, "My heart's content!" 

In any and every circumstance.



Your Turn:
  • What does "content" mean to you? 
  • What helps you make Jesus your heart's content
  • Anything else on your heart!


    Day 26: THANKSGIVING (5 Ideas for Daily Thanks-Living)

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    Day 14: TRUST (+ How Each PURSE-onality Can Get Day Overwhelmed)
    Day 15: PATIENT (+ Practicing Now for Patience Then)
    Day 16: NO RECORD (+ How to Have Grudge-Free Holidays)
    Day 17: TRUTH (Each PURSE-onality's Take on Truth)
    Day 18: PERSEVERE (+2 Cures for Procrastination)
    Day 19: BLESS (Your Feelings Can Help You Choose)
    Day 20: BUILDING (20+ Ways to Build with Words)
    Day 21: HOLD (Hold Back, Let Go, and Step Up)
    Day 22: FRUIT (I Didn't Think...I Was a People-Pleaser!)
    Day 23: CLEANSE (A Holiday-Ready Home)
    Day 24: REJOICE (We Share the Same Heart Rate) 
    Day 25: NEAR ("Everything Else" or Emmanuel?)


    Do not be anxious about anything, but in every
    situation, by prayer and petition, with
    thanksgiving, present your request to God.
    Philippians 4:6 (NIV) 

    The Typical Two

    I've heard of two primary ways to focus on thankfulness.



    1)  Keep track of what I'm thankful for (i.e. in a gratitude journal)

    2)  Share my gratitude with those for whom I'm thankful (i.e. by writing a thank-you note)


    A New (for Me) #3

    But yesterday, I discovered a new way (new for me, at least!) to focus on thankfulness.

    In preparation for today's blog post, I asked this question throughout the day:  

    "What's one thing you're thankful for right now?"

    I was happily overwhelmed by the sheer number of responses I got.

    And I marveled at the diversity, the depth, the humor, and the honesty of each answer.

    I kept thinking, “Me, too!” or “Oh, yeah!” or “I’d forgotten!” or “That’s so true.”

    Every person’s expression of gratitude triggered thankfulness in me. 


    What If...

    I started wondering: 

    What might happen if "What's one thing you're thankful for right now?" became my favorite conversation starter?

    I don’t have an answer for you yet. 

    (But I will!)

    In the meantime, here are five ideas for daily “Thanks-Living,” the first being to do what I did yesterday: ask others what they’re thankful for. 

    Try it! 

    Then come on back and tell us what you learned about them, yourself, and gratitude!




    1.  Ask other people, "What's one thing you're thankful for right now?"


      



    2.  Thankful Thanksgiving Activity Countdown


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    3.  Gratitude Journal


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    4.  Perpetual Gratitude Calendar


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    5.  Gratitude Jar


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    Your Turn:
    • What hands-on project(s) have you done as a physical reminder to be thankful?
    • What's one thing you're thankful for right now? 
    • Anything else on your heart!

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