Showing posts with label woman at the well. Show all posts
Showing posts with label woman at the well. Show all posts

A Woman Who Leaves Her Jar at the Well


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In pray-paring to share Wednesday's blog post for staff worship, I was drawn to John 4:28 (NLT) 

"The woman left her water jar beside the well and ran back to the village, telling everyone..."

and it hit me that

I want to be a woman who leaves her jar at the well.

I don't carry a literal jar, of course. But do I ever lug an agenda to the well!

An agenda I fill to overflowing with ways to meet my needs.

An agenda under which I stagger a bit more with each step.

An agenda brimming with plans for

  • trying hard so that I'll be seen as competent by my colleagues.
  • trying hard so that my kids will be well-adjusted.
  • trying hard so that my marriage will survive.


I want to be a woman who leaves her jar at the well.

Who encounters Jesus, talks with Jesus, listens to Jesus, and leaves without her agenda...

...because in my excitement, I've forgotten all about it!

...because if I bring it, I can't possibly run fast enough!

...because I've given it to Him to use as He sees fit.



I want to be a woman who leaves her jar at the well.

Too many times, I've tried the running-with-the-full-jar routine.

Tripped.

Fallen.

Landed soaking wet, among broken shards. Too many times.

I want to be  
a wife
a mother
a teacher
who leaves her jar at the well.

Who runs pell-mell to town, calling, "Come see!  Come see!  Come see!"

because I can't wait for

my husband
my children
my students 

to hear 
Jesus
and know 
Jesus 
for themselves.


Your Turn:
  • What does it mean for you to "leave your jar at the well"?
  • What does "trying so that" look like in your life?
  • What might living "because" look like instead?
  • Anything else on your heart!










Head --> Hear --> Heart

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Today I'm sharing the short Bible teaching I prepared for my "speaker evaluation group" at She Speaks (which is where I got to meet and hear Emily Freeman speak last month!)
For months leading up to SheSpeaks, I was praying, “Dear Lord, five minutes?!?” Seriously? It takes me five minutes to tell my first story and get my first laughs from my audience!

Then I discovered that one of my favorite Bible characters takes far less than five minutes to give the keynote address of her lifetime!

Join me in the story of the woman at the well at John 4:39:

39  Many of the Samaritans from that town believed in [Jesus] because of the woman’s testimony, “He told me everything I ever did.” 

This woman waits how long to launch her speaking ministry?  

I don’t think she has time to order business cards from VistaPrint.com, let alone get a good head shot taken. 

What’s her only training for her first keynote? 

She’s talked with Jesus. 

And how does talking with Jesus effect her?

Verse 28 says she leaves her water jar and heads back to town. Now, either she’s so excited that she totally forgets what she’s doing, or she knows she can’t run fast enough with the jar. 

Either way, she’s bursting to share Jesus!

So, back in town, she sets up her PowerPoint and starts with a graph of a startling statistic…

No. 

What is the opening line of her keynote?

“He told me everything I ever did.”

“Everything” she “ever did"?!?

Jesus has said three things about her. 
1. No husband
2. Five previous husbands
3. Live-in boyfriend.

Like for so many women, “everything I ever did” boils down to relationships.
Failed relationships

This woman is living out of a broken heart.

And Jesus, she thinks, just might be the One who can heal it.

So the people hear what the woman says about her encounter with Jesus.  

And this is what we do when we share our testimonies:  

we give others head knowledge about  Jesus.

But, we can’t stop there! 

The woman at the well isn’t sharing head knowledge about Jesus so her listeners can take notes and tell her, “Oh, you are such a wonderful speaker!” 

No. She wants her hearers to 

head to Jesus themselves!

She doesn’t even end properly! No heart-tugging story with Kleenex being passed, no repetition of her key point three times for certainty. 

She closes with a question!  (Clearly she hadn’t even Googled “Is Jesus the Christ?” – talking about unprepared!)

But what kind of response does this speaker’s keynote address produce?

40  So when the Samaritans came to him, they urged him to stay with them, and he stayed two days.

This speaker’s keynote address – “He understands failed relationships!” – causes her audience to head to Jesus and hear Jesus for 2 full days!

And whose words actually transform the people’s lives?  

41  And because of [Jesus’] words many more became believers.

42  They said to the woman, “We no longer believe just because of what you said; now we have heard for ourselves, and we know that this man really is the Savior of the world.”

This story convicts me of the danger lurking each time this speaker gives her keynote address. 

It’s the danger of wanting the women to hear me

Because what women hear they take to heart.  

And when I haven’t invested time to hear Jesus, I need my audience to hear me and take me to heart. 

My broken heart needs constant fixing, and there’s nothing like the endorphine rush of a responsive audience. (Especially when the Kleenex get moving around the room!)

This story convicts me that my #1 priority is to hear Jesus. 

And then 

(and only then!)

share my encounter with Him 

so that 
others head to Jesus and hear Jesus for themselves.

When we give this kind of keynote address, the women who “hear us” will ultimately...

hearJesus

and they will take to 

heart...Jesus

And then they will KNOW this Jesus is the healer of their broken hearts, too.

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Your Turn:

  • What do you see/hear in the story of the woman at the well today?
  • Other than Jesus, who is your favorite Bible character? Why?
  • Anything else on your heart!



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